“You are meant to succeed, and failure should feel bad to you. Life is supposed to go well for you—and when it does not— there is something wrong. But what is wrong is not something that is outside of you over which you have no control. What is wrong is within you, and you do have control. And taking control is not difficult to do once you understand the basis of who-you-are and the value of your personal Emotional Guidance System.”
It can be pretty simple if you pay attention. If you are feeling bad in any way, you are out of alignment-with you. If you are feeling good in any way, you are IN alignment with you. It’s like you have your own internal GPS system. It’s time to stop blaming other people and other things for what is occurring in your life. It’s time to start owning and being at cause for YOUR life. It’s your life after all. Not someone else’s.
And when I say cause I am not talking about blame. I am simply saying that you are in the driver’s seat and the only thing you can control is when you push on the gas pedal or breaks, or which direction you turn the steering wheel. Everything else is outside of your control. Your feelings are a reflection of your experience. You DO have the power to change it. Just turn the wheel.